Your Career Is Stuck Because You’re a Doer, Not an Owner
Want growth? Use those do'er skills and change your mindset
Let’s be real for a second....
If you’ve been working hard for years but still feel stuck in your career… if you’re wondering why you’re not getting the big projects… if you’re frustrated that other people are getting promoted while you’re still grinding away… it’s probably because you’re a doer, not an owner.
What’s the Difference?
Here’s what a doer looks like:
They wait for tickets.
They do what they’re told.
They focus on the task in front of them.
They care about their work, but they don’t think beyond it.
Here’s what an owner looks like:
They think about the outcome, not just the task.
They ask questions. Lots of them.
They don’t wait for permission to spot problems and fix them.
They look for ways to make the system better, not just the feature.
They realise that we are there to deliver business value, not code.
Owners think bigger. They zoom out. They care about why the work matters, not just what the work is.
Why This Matters
You can be the best coder in the world, but if you’re only doing what’s assigned to you, you’ll stay in the same place for a long time. You’ll get told, “Just keep doing what you’re doing.”
Meanwhile, the people who own their work, the ones who take initiative, who see problems before they happen, who think about business impact, they’re the ones who get promoted. They’re the ones who get the stretch projects. They’re the ones who get noticed by leadership.
Your company doesn’t promote people who just get the job done.
They promote people who create business value.
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The Doer Mindset: What It Sounds Like
If you catch yourself saying things like:
“I’m waiting for my next task.”
“That’s not my problem.”
“I wasn’t told to do that.”
“I did my part, someone else can figure the rest out.”
That’s a doer mindset. It’s safe. It’s comfortable. But it’s also why your career feels stuck.
You’re not showing leadership potential. You’re not demonstrating that you can handle bigger, messier, more important work.
The Owner Mindset: What It Sounds Like
The best engineers I’ve worked with don’t stay quiet. They don’t wait to be told.
They say things like:
“This ticket doesn’t make sense. Can we clarify the goal?”
“I noticed this feature might introduce a risk. Should we address it now?”
“I think this part of the system is fragile. Here’s how we could improve it.”
“If we build this, how will it impact the customer experience?”
They care about the bigger picture. They care about impact. They’re not just building features. They’re solving problems.
Final Thought
If you’re not growing… if your career feels stuck… it’s time to ask yourself:
Am I a doer? Or am I an owner?
I don’t say this to upset you or trigger you… I say this because I was stuck in this trap for so long. Honestly? Sometimes I still am.
Because the engineers who get promoted, who get trusted with the big stuff, who make an impact on the business… they’re the ones who step up. They’re the ones who own.
Stop waiting for tickets.
Start thinking in outcomes.
That’s how you grow.
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